Dad matters: Why father-and-child relationships are important

Fatherhood does not stop in procreation. In fact, it is the start of a long journey full of challenges. Stereotypes about (young) fathers exist until today. People think they are immature, lacking compassion, or downright lazy. However, fathers play a very important role in the development of their children. Here’s why.
 

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Fathers are a figure of discipline and care. 

Children who have an excellent relationship with their fathers are less likely to rebel when they’re older. They know that their fathers are watching over them, and they dislike the thought of disappointing their parents. Children with involved fathers also have a higher sense of self-esteem and good academic achievement.  

Fathers influence relationships. 

 Ever heard of the term “daddy issues?” Women who did not have a great father figure while growing up sometimes end up looking for attention from someone who treated them like their father—abusive or disinterested. Men who grew up without fathers are most likely to be abusive or looking for multiple partners. However, those who experienced the love of their fathers value relationships more. Women will look for a partner with the same traits like their father, and men will treat their family with care and respect. 

Fathers bring encouragement to their children 

While having a mother is something that should not be overlooked, the involvement of the father encourages the child to do better. Dads encourage their kids through play, stories, and even just their mere presence. The fact that children know their dads are around gives them courage and faith that is immeasurable.   

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Hi, I’m Alpman Ilker. I may have worn different hats in this lifetime, but my favorite is being a father to my kids, Sarah and Tom. Read more about fatherhood by visiting this blog.