Parents use their gadgets as a way to pacify their crying child. It’s no longer surprising to see a two-year old navigate mobile apps. Before they even learn how to write, they are already familiar with switching from one app to another. Though it may be amazing to see kids become so familiar with technology, excessive use of gadgets may cause developmental problems in them.
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Gadget use of children is not altogether bad. Its excessiveness is what’s alarming for parents and doctors alike. Just like with any other toy, if you take it away from them, they may cry, throw a tantrum, or plead to you until you give it back. Some parents are accused of being lazy for not being strict enough to implement rules for the kid’s use of the gadget. In order to prevent tantrums and loud cries, parents offer their phones to the kid to keep him quiet. This may have an affect on how they deal with people in the future.
Parents should set an example when it comes to using gadgets. If you’re glued to your phone, your child might just become like you. Spend more time with them and let them know that there are other ways to play and have fun. If possible, refrain from using your phone when you’re together. Nothing beats human interaction.
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Be sure to be the parent in every situation. Gadget use requires your permission. Set a time for their use, and be strict in following it. Teach them the importance of moderation. Start them young by teaching them how to control their urges to use the gadget as excessive could be harmful to them.
If excessive use continues, it might be time for a time out. Digital detox would allow them to explore various activities different from gadget use. Doing it with them may encourage them to keep at it to lessen their gadget use. Explain to them that what you’re doing is for their growth, and let them experience that it is your role, as the parent, to oversee their development.
Alpman Ilker here. I’m a general contractor in Denver, Colorado, but I prioritize my family more than my job and my hobbies. Follow this blog for similar posts.
